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No such thing as love at first sight??

Matt Barlow - 06 October 2020

Do you believe in love at first sight? I mean you should because Hollywood have been peddling it as a concept for quite a few decades now. Personally I think it’s a load of rubbish. Attraction at first sight? Yep, totally believe in that. But love, proper love - that takes time. I can still remember walking a clifftop path with Josie back in 1992 and telling her I love her, to which she responded ‘Don’t be silly, you’ve only known me two months!’ That was me told.

As we are in a season of having a number of Home Churches starting, and a number of people joining a Home Church* - I thought it might be helpful to have a few pointers on falling in love with your Home Church. (*Back in April we had 118 in Home Churches, by the end of October this should be 162!)

No such thing as love at first sight

When you join a new group, or when you form a new group, you have to expect it to take time to really gel. At least six months and probably a year to be honest, especially during Covid where interaction is reduced. Relationship is built by spending time together, getting to know each other’s stories, sharing memories, laughing together, crying together, praying together, eating together and sharing jokes together.

This is very true on a one to one level, and it takes that little bit longer in a group setting. If you expect a home church to feel really natural straight away, you will be disappointed. And whilst our culture tells us to expect everything to be instant and overnight, relationships never ever will be. So give it time.

Distant relationships are tough

I don’t know if you’ve ever tried a distant relationship - they can work, but it’s rare that they work without a good chunk of non-distant friendship first. If you don’t actually turn up (either on line or in person) then it will be harder to get to that place of really knowing someone. So, quite simply, don’t keep your distant. Get close, get involved, and the rewards will come quicker

It’s ok to have favourites

No one likes favouritism, but having people you prefer hanging out with is just natural and human. So, it’s ok to have one or a few people in your group that you really get on with, and others that you love ‘in the Lord’ but aren’t likely to choose for some chill out down time. Jesus knew this was how we are wired, but also challenged us with these words from Matthew 5:46-47 ‘If you love only those who love you, what reward is there for that? Even corrupt tax collectors do that much. If you are kind only to your friends,[s] how are you different from anyone else? Even pagans do that.’

A home church is almost always going to be a place where you have those you are closer to, and those you aren’t. That’s fine, just make sure you are working on loving everyone!

If the shoe doesn’t fit

I know, it’s awkward, you go to a group for a few sessions and it’s just not working and just not clicking. You’re in the WhatsApp group, you are now stuck, and so you just start ghosting everyone, and feel awkward turning up to church at all (imagine we can go ’to church.’)

We simply have to have a culture that says, ‘if the shoe doesn’t fit, it doesn’t mean the shoe is wrong!’ Can you imagine shoes getting upset every time someone tried to stick their size 9 into a size 6. In dating parlance, it’s the classic ‘It’s not you, it’s me.’ But we all know it’s kind of both. But we have to be ok for people to try a home church and then go try another one on for size if that isn’t working, without anyone feeling bad or insecure. I speak on behalf of all of our Home Church Leaders and say ‘we are fine with that!’

So what to do?

Thanks for reading this far. So, how do we make it work?
We are one church, many homes, and I’m so excited to see so many people grabbing hold of this element of our vision going forward. It will never be perfect, but God’s hand is all over it, so let’s get in on his action.

  1. Don’t just rely on the meetings, whether on zoom or in person. Try and build relationships in other ways. Go for a walk, do something fun together (when allowed), meet up as one to one, or two to one or two to two. Men meet up together and women meet up together. Mix it all up. This needs to be an organic relationship building thing that is not wholly reliant on meeting as a whole group.
  2. Give it time and don’t expect too much (you get the message)
  3. Remember this is just a part of your spiritual diet and walk with Jesus, don’t rely on it for everything
  4. Join a Home Church even if you can’t attend every time. Being part of a community is the only way you will flourish in this journey of faith.
  5. If it’s not working - don’t disappear, find a new one! (Speak to a leader if you need help doing that)

We are one church, many homes, and I’m so excited to see so many people grabbing hold of this element of our vision going forward. It will never be perfect, but God’s hand is all over it, so let’s get in on his action.

Sundays are here to stay!

Matt Barlow - 18 September 2020

I thought I’d just write a quick blog to clear up any misunderstanding from my ‘New Wineskins’ talk of last week about the future of Sunday Big Church. I’ve had one or two people ask: ‘So will we never be returning to Sunday church as we knew it then?’ Which made me realise that in setting out the vision for the priority we want to place on Home Churches, I’d clearly not made it clear enough re Sundays.

Firstly though, I would say that I don’t think Sunday meetings have to be sacred, that we should hold this form of gathering lightly and be open to whatever God wants us to do. That said, I do think there is real value in them, and whilst I think we perhaps need to reduce the importance level of them, I do think they are important. So, what exactly am I saying?

Will we have Sunday meetings again?

When we are allowed to meet in large gatherings again, we will be returning to Sunday meetings, where we will have a large crowd, worshipping, listening to teaching and enjoying community. I believe there is real value in larger gatherings for worship, and also believe that some preaching is best received from the platform, in a crowd. There is just something about the dynamic that makes this true. So, yes these will happen in the future. They are also a great moment to teach and grow our kids - the kids workers at the Light are some of the very best, and Sunday mornings is a great time to make this happen.

Will they be the same?

This I can’t say, because I do believe we should be open to God doing new things. But, chances are there will be many elements that will remain the same, however things such as length of items, variety of items etc will all need some prayerful reflection. Maybe God has the exact and perfect way for a church to run a worship service and we’ve discovered it (along with almost every other ’new’ church out there,) or maybe we have all just got into a rut? Openness to his spirit is crucial in all of this.

Are they going to be all about new people?

No, definitely not. When I spoke on Sunday about Sunday services being a great shop window to the Curious - be they far from God, or just looking for a new spiritual home, this wasn’t to say that the service / Sunday experience will be all about new people. But, it will be one of the big benefits of keeping Sunday meetings going, and that is crucial if we are to keep mission at the heart of who we are. Will we work hard to ensure new people feel comfortable? Yes, definitely. Will the service be all about new people? No.

How is the level of importance going to change then?

This is one of the key things that I’m keen to shift. I have observed an unspoken legalism that it is somehow your duty to turn up on a Sunday to be a good Jesus follower. I think church can be and needs to be more flexible than this. I do think it’s important to meet together, but I don’t think Sunday should trump Home Church. In fact I’d love Home church to become so good that we want that to be our main place of being community. We live in a very time poor world, and thus flexibility around which church meetings we go to is more important than ever. We need space to live the kingdom impacting lives God calls us to, and if this means that Sundays rarely work for you, but Wednesdays do, then I want that to be ok. Attending church was never the goal of Jesus’ mission, being the church and building the kingdom was, so let’s get it in its rightful place.

What was all that about not everyone coming every Sunday?

Firstly, I can see a future where maybe a Home church meets on a Sunday in a home, watches a service or a talk online and enjoys breakfast, brunch or lunch together whilst discussing the service and praying for one another. As our church grows it may be that on a given Sunday a few home churches meet in homes whilst the rest of us meet centrally. This would mean we don’t need a bigger and bigger building, and that we can be church in more flexible ways. It may be that over time Home churches from the north of the city, come one week, whilst those in the south come the next week (just an idea, don’t panic!), with maybe the occasional bigger whole church gathering in a different venue when size requires it. Whilst this stuff is some good way off, this is what I’m thinking that could help us grow the church without losing a sense of family and togetherness.

I hope this reassures you. As the Lead Pastor, I want to create the very best environment where you are both supported and provoked to live the best Jesus Shaped Kingdom advancing life you can. Where you can be loved, grow in God, live out your calling in the world, without burning yourself out. I’m hoping the above will help us with that and will be the fresh flexible and expandable wineskin God wants us to be.

Matt

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Lockdown survey feedback

Matt Barlow - 31 July 2020

Greetings church! I’d love to say it’s great to be back from holiday, but I’ll be honest, holiday was great, a wonderful break - camping in the Lakes and Cornwall - and I’d be more excited to be back if we knew this Covid thing was on its way out and could start planning with some certainty. However, the last 24 hours have proven we can plan nothing with certainty, and I bet we have all experienced some sense of frustration, upset or sadness that some of the small freedoms we had got back have now been taken away again. More grace Lord! More patience needed for all us and more resilience! Praise God that he’s got plenty of all that for us, we just need help receiving it, don’t we?

I’ve nothing to report in terms of changes, but I did think it would be helpful to report back on the survey responses we had a few weeks ago. This Tuesday evening we will be meeting as a leadership team, to prayerfully reflect and consider how we move forward after the summer holidays. Please keep us in your prayers.

Anyway, here is what you told us in the survey:

HEADLINE: Lockdown has not had a negative impact on the faith of most people! (yay!)

How has lockdown impacted your faith?
How has lockdown impacted your faith?


Comments:
  • It could easily be that those who have struggled were less likely to answer the survey, thus making this look more positive
  • We noted that young adults were more positive about lockdown being good for their faith journey.
  • We also noted parents with young families are those who have struggled most - something that wasn’t a surprise!





How people feel about returning in September
How people feel about returning in September

Comments:
  • Young adults were most likely to steer clear - 58% said they would stay away
  • Families with older children were most keen to return

We then asked you how you’ve found Sunday mornings and also how you feel the church has handled it. To summarise the general feel of the comments:

  • In general you’ve appreciated Sunday mornings, the feel, the content, the variety - thanks for the feedback!
  • Many of you are feeling more connected in a strange way!
  • Those in Home churches seem to have felt more connected and supported
  • Some feedback that the church could have done more to support some people

  • I’d like to say that I’m very thankful for such encouraging feedback. I was surprised by how positive it was. I know I’m probably being too hard on myself, but there is plenty that I would do differently if I had my chance again. Yes I know it was unprecedented times, and I’m very aware that I’d only been in the job for about 6-7 weeks when it all hit. So, please if you have in any way felt let down, be assured that as the leader I’m not sitting here thinking we’ve totally nailed it. We’re aware there is more we could have done, and we are sorry to have let anyone down. I guess all I would say is that if you do still feel unsupported, please let me know. Call me, text me, email me - it’s hard to stay on top of everything and everyone, but if we know we can respond.

Just a reminder, do pray for us as a leadership that we’d have great wisdom over area of church life, especially how we look to continue connecting with each other and connecting with God together.

Radical living starts with radical giving

Matt Barlow - 08 July 2020

Jesus never taught people to tithe - so why is it then that so many committed Christians do tithe, normally tithing into their local church?

When Jesus came He said that He had not come to do away with the law, but to ‘fulfill’ it. (Matt 5:17) i.e. take it to its fullest level. So, it was no longer good enough to not hate your enemies, you had to love them! No longer good enough simply to fulfill a set of religious laws, more than that He wanted us to love God with our whole being.

Interestingly Jesus never taught people to tithe, in a sense that was taken as a given, it was the law and people knew it. You couldn’t be a first century Jew without the words of Malachi ringing in their ears that to not tithe was to “rob God” (Mal 3:8). The one time that Jesus did mention tithing was when he was railing against the religious people who were being so fastidious in their tithing the spices, but ignoring justice! What he did say though was ‘don’t neglect the former (i.e. tithing)’ but do both – so you could argue from that one mention that he did teach tithing! Whilst never really teaching or even mentioning tithing, Jesus did talk about money all the time, in fact he spoke more about money than any other subject. But he didn’t come to do away with the law, no, but to fulfill it, or take it to its fullness. Thus, he called his disciples to go way beyond tithing and have a much more radical approach to finances, that they’d be prepared to give and give and give.

I love this great quote from an article by John Ortberg on tithing, he said “A tithe makes a great floor but a poor ceiling.” I even preached on that very concept back in January 2015. Ortberg also said that the tithe is like stabilisers on a bike that it’s to get you going in your giving, but God always intended for us to move on from it into so much more.

So, why is it that so many committed Christians give a whole tithe, the whole ten percent, into the local church? Well, it can be for a whole host of reasons - some theological and some practical. These can include:

  • Because you’ve been taught that Malachi 3:10 Bring all the tithes into the storehouse so there will be enough food in my Temple’ means you should give your tithe into the church. Whilst interpreting the ‘storehouse’ as the local church wouldn’t be a bad interpretation of scripture, it’s also not the strongest argument. The tithe was supposed to be given in different ways and different places if you look back at the Torah. Though Jesus did commend the poor widow for her giving into the temple (the closest thing to the early church, before the church was born.)
  • Because you’ve been taught that people of Israel gave their tithes into the temple – hmmm, yes they did, as God wanted to use this to take care of the priests and the poor in the community, but it’s a bit more complex than that, at times they were told to enjoy the tithes themselves as a feast!
  • Because the early church seemed to do their outrageous ‘beyond tithing’ giving through the local church. Now we’re getting onto some firmer ground – Acts 4:35 said that giving was brought to the feet of the apostles, who then decided how best to use it. So this is a very real example we should consider following.
  • Because you love what is happening in your church, that you think ‘whether or not the bible is 100% clear on this, I want to do it, because we’re building kingdom, reaching our city with the good news of Jesus etc etc.’ You love giving and you want to give to support everything that is happening – not to mention the fact that you benefit from being part of this church as do your family (if you have family.)
  • Because you can see that it’s a practice that has been proven by the older generation of our church. Seriously some of our most faithful tithers are those who have been following Jesus for decades, and each one will testify to how putting God first in their finance has shaped their faith. If you are younger or newer to the faith, you will do well to follow their example.

So, what about you? What sits right for you? I’m hoping you’re someone who is convinced that a tithe is worth giving into your local church, and either have been doing for some time, or you’re ready to start – brilliant! Thank you, and thank you God, for it is him moving in our hearts whenever we choose to be generous.

Maybe you’ve decided that the Light church is going to be your church. If that’s the case, then you really should be doing something around giving. If you’re struggling then don’t feel pressure, but I’d still encourage you to try and give something – the blessing of giving should be available to everyone, not just those with loads of cash.

Maybe you’ve been giving, but not giving a tithe. If you have studied the scriptures and reached the conclusion that your tithe can be shared beyond the local church, and that’s what you want to do – follow your conscience. I know that, for me, I would believe God would be fine for me giving some of my tithe outside of the church, as I do with other money. But I love this church, have always loved it, despite its faults, so am keen to see it well resourced so we can achieve all he has for us, so have always brought my whole tithe into the local church.

As we regularly mention, follow the advice of Paul in 2 Corinthians 7, Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.’

Whatever happens, let’s not get legalistic, but let’s remember that Jesus consistently taught that grace went beyond the law it didn’t stop short of it. He called us to radical living, so let’s start with some radical giving.

Praise God for my healing!!

Matt Barlow - 30 June 2020

Nearly five weeks ago, I had to dash home from my work with a temperature. I was convinced it was Covid and despite a negative test, am still convinced. I am only just fully better, but want to praise God for my healing. Yes, even though it took nearly 5 weeks, I still want to praise him, and here is why…. in fact I wrote this whilst in the midst of feeling terrible, nearly five weeks ago.

The challenge of being a rational thinker

Before I get into this, I need to confess at times I can be a very rational thinker and rational communicator.

I simply can’t say ‘wow that’s my absolute favourite’ about something…..unless it truly is. When my kids would tell me ‘you’re the best dad in the world!’ (that was before they were teenagers), my response would be: ‘aww thanks.’ But on the inside I’d have this internal monologue thinking… ‘I’m the only Dad you’ve ever experienced so it’s not much of a competition’ or ‘It’s highly unlikely that I’m actually the best in the world, but thanks, I appreciate the sentiment.’ That’s what goes on in the head of a very rational thinker - can some of you out there relate to it? Whilst the rest of the world feels sorry for us literalists!

So when it comes to healing, I’ll be honest that, at times, when someone has been healed in a seemingly non-supernatural way and someone else says ‘Praise God’ I used to struggle with that. I used to struggle that people would attribute to God and prayer what just happened through science, medicine or natural causes.

But then it was last year, as I was walking along a beach on holiday, I was praying and talking to God and listening to what he had to say to me, when I just got a sense…. ‘It’s all a miracle’ and ‘Praise God’ is exactly the right response for every healing that every happens. Every healing, however it comes about, deserves a ‘Praise God!’ Here’s why I think this.

The miracle of the human immune system

It’s a miracle that the way he has created our bodies is such that our bodies are constantly fighting off infection. I wish I was a scientist and could explain it better, but the way that our bodies fight back against colds, viruses, yes there might be a few days of feeling rubbish, but most things get beaten off simply because we’ve been wired and created to fight back. As I lay in bed with a fever fighting off Covid - I thanked God that this fever was a sign of my body’s immune system fighting back. This is a miracle!!! It’s stunning, absolutely stunning. Praise God for my healing!

The miracle of science

As I continued my walk along the beach, I got to thinking about science and medicine and the role it played. Before I knew it I was bursting out in praise to my God. God created us and gave us brains so amazing and so advanced that, especially in this day and age, we truly understand the workings of the human body. Have you ever stopped to wonder at how amazing that is? That we understand, to the tiniest detail, of how the body works. That when a new virus like Covid comes along, we can seek to understand this tiniest of things and then work a way for some form of medicine to fight back against it, or even protect against it? Praise God for amazing brains that work that out - because he made those brains! Who gave these scientists and medics that ability? Him alone. So the next time someone is fully healed purely as a result of medical intervention, I’m going to say ‘Praise God’, sure I’ll be grateful for the medics and scientists, but praise our amazing God for giving them the ability and knowledge.

The miracle of the mind

I realise this might be a new thought, but have you ever thought about how ‘faith’ in its generic sense heals people? I know Jesus said ‘Your faith has made you well,’ but a year or two back I read a fascinating science book on how people got well if they believed they were being made well. You’ll have heard of it before, it’s called the placebo effect. This is where a new drug is tested and some people are given a fake drug whilst others are given the real thing. If the success of the placebo is less than the real thing, it’s generally considered a success (please, I’m no scientist, but that was my understanding.) Not uncommon at all for a new drug to hit 80% success rate and the placebo 60%. Isn’t that incredible, that 60% of people would ‘heal themselves’ simply because they think they’ve taken something that has healed them?? I think as Christians we’ve maybe reacted against this, but once again why shouldn’t we shout ‘Praise God’ that he has made our minds so incredible that by thinking the right things we can, sometimes, release healing into our bodies, remove pain by the power of the mind etc. Talk about the renewing of the mind, that is truly stunning and when we pray for people there may be times when that is exactly what is happening. It might make it feel less amazing, but maybe that’s because we are not amazed enough at our how amazing God has made us?

The supernatural

I don’t know about you, but having considered all of the above, I almost feel like saying, surely that is all supernatural??? Well yes, in that it’s truly amazing, remarkable and wonderful, but no… dictionary definition of supernatural is this - attributed to some force beyond scientific understanding or the laws of nature. Well our scientific understanding is off the charts isn’t it - Praise God for that! Our understanding of the laws of nature is off the charts isn’t it? Praise God for that too!

However, on top of having the most amazing immune systems, the most incredible science and medicine, minds that work to heal us - there are moments when our God, having done all of that, and let’s be real here - that would be enough - steps in and does something totally unexplainable.

Like Kelly who had a hematoma in her womb that was going to kill her unborn baby. Josie prayed for her, the next hospital scan, it had totally disappeared.

Like Anne, a CAP client, who went totally blind, yet got prayed for and her eyesight was perfectly restored.

Like Carrie who couldn’t read because of her dyslexia yet came out of the baptism pool able to read fine.

(All people I’ve met and can verify first hand)

None of that is the immune system, nor science, nor the mind - this is God breaking in in an extra special way.

Now if we’re being honest those don’t happen very often do they? Certainly not in the ‘western’ church? I know it’s not a very faith filled thing to say, remember I’m a rational thinker, I’m just being honest. It tends to be a combination of the more natural healing processes and God working through those at times to speed up our healing. That is why, when I pray, one of the ways I pray for healing is that God’s spirit would accelerate the brilliant healing he has already programmed into the body. Just like adrenalin does the same in a natural way, so God’s spirit can do it in a spiritual way.

But when it does happen - wow - it’s amazing isn’t it? We can really let ourselves go in praise to God. But I guess my point in writing this is to let ourselves go in praise to God when it happens through natural/scientific means too, because he’s responsible for every single one of those as well!

The mystery of faith and healing

Let’s face it the whole area of healing and faith is a real mystery. When I think of those in our church suffering with long term illness, with Chronic Fatigue, Fibromyalgia, Josie with her thyroid condition, Eye conditions - people who are waiting for a miracle - each of these beautiful people need us to have both a gift of faith for them, and a sensitivity that we must acknowledge that not everything gets healed in our timing, or even, at times, this side of the grave. There are times when it’s right to declare full healing and be rammed full of expectation and faith and times when its right to simply journey with love and compassion.

For those of you full of faith all, or most, of the time, I hope I’ve not dampened it at all - we all need you! You inspire us and challenge us to believe for more.

For those who struggle at times with being too rational, like me, I hope this helps you to join in with the ‘Praise Gods’ next time someone has successful surgery, gets over a cold, or has a top drawer supernatural miracle that simply can’t be explained, but for the goodness of God.

Leadership Changes Part 2

Matt Barlow - 29 June 2020

Introducing the leadership changes in the Light Church - Part 2

Light church family - Who is leading us, and where do I fit?

As already mentioned, we believe that God has not only led us to a new structure, but also to some new people being called into leadership roles within the church.

We have created a pyramid diagram to pictorially demonstrate this - (scroll down to see.) As you will see from the diagram, we have deliberately inverted the structure of leadership within the church. This reflects our belief and desire that as your leaders we are not ‘over’ you, but rather we want to serve you, strengthen you, uphold you and equip you.

So what do all of the terms mean and who are these people? (We recognise there is some repetition here from the document detailing the changes in leadership structure, but have left them in, so it can exist as a stand alone document for future use.)

Lead Pastor- Matt Barlow became Lead Pastor of the church in Feb 2020 after God called him away from his role as CEO of CAP to serve the Light Church. This means he is the person primarily responsible for receiving and imparting a God given vision. He will seek to lead and serve the church so we are all equipped to disciple each other and for works of service to fulfil our vision. This means everything from overseeing the teaching of the church, the spiritual practices, disciple making, pastoral care of the church and all of our many outreach ministries. Matt will do this in conjunction with a leadership team and under the legal authority of the trustees.

Trustees -comprising of David Bullen, Kate Hart, Pete McMahon, Peter Snell.
The first key decision we made was to establish a separate group of trustees who are independent from the spiritual and day to day leadership of the church. Trustees are responsible for the oversight and decision making on all things legal, financial and regulatory involved in running the church as a charity. They are specifically there to ensure that the charity (i.e. the church) fulfills the purposes for which it is set out, and is it doing it in line with both legal expectations and best practice guidelines.
We are so grateful to this group for their willingness to serve in this capacity, and if you don’t know them that well, we will be introducing them to you very soon.

Leadership Team- This second group will be referred to collectively as the Leadership, however different roles will be played within this:
Oversight team- comprising of Matt Barlow, Helen Watts and Steve Restrick.
Firstly there will be a group that will be an Oversight team, whose job it will be to work with me as Lead Pastor to oversee the spiritual life of the church. This will mean playing a vital role in discerning what God is saying to us in terms of vision and direction, ensuring the church is being led according to sound biblical interpretation, carrying a sense of pastoral burden for the church amongst other things. Helen has faithfully served on Light Church

leadership for the last three years and as pastoral team oversight. Steve, was a pastor, church planter and served in pastoral ministry for 20 years and thus brings a wealth of experience in church life. They also both bring a strong emphasis on pastoral leadership, which I am convinced will be a helpful support to me as I continue my personal journey of transformation.

Pastoral and Operations- comprising of Matt Barlow, Josie Barlow and Tarzan Almas. This team is responsible for the ‘running’ of the church. They will work closely with the employed staff team, key ministry leaders and other servants of the church to practically ensure we are fulfilling the vision and strategy of the church.

We recognise the valuable leadership roles both Josie and Tarzan already fulfill in different ways. Josie as one of the founders of the church is a teacher and preacher as well as someone heavily invested into strengthening the sense of family and community, but also on the cutting edge of our outreach. Tarzan has demonstrated an amazing pastoral heart and serves the church tirelessly in both providing support and equipping and supporting others in their pastoral gifting and ministry.

It should be noted that we intend to add to these teams over time, but felt it right for now to start small and build a relationally strong team. We are aware the team is not the youngest group ever, and we intend to invite some younger leaders, initially to apprentice, to ensure we are equipping all generations.

Ministry Leaders - these are the point leaders who have overall responsibility for a specific ministry or key function within the church. (We recognise there are many serving as leaders of sub groups or as part of a team under these overall ministry leaders)
Pastoral - Tarzan Almas

Church Life

Social action and outreach

Operational

Worship & Tech - Chris Haldane

Preaching and Teaching - Matt Barlow

Youth - Sarah Bullen

Kids - tbc

Young adults - Kiri Saunders Prayer - tbc

TLG - Maddie Meszaros

Foodbank - Josie Barlow

CAP services - Gaz Thompson

Finance & Facilities - Alan Priestly

Safeguarding - Tarzan Almas

Communications - Matt Barlow


Home Church Leaders -part of the Light church ethos is one of being family and community and this is very hard to happen in a church of nearly 300 adults and children. Here at the Light church, small groups, that we call Home Church, are just as important, if not more important than ‘Big Church.’ We value both highly, but want to be clear that Home church is central to our vision and growth. Thus your Home Church leaders are key in creating a healthy spiritual community that enables people to grow as disciples and find their place to serve in both the church and the wider community.

The church body that we are called to serve

All the roles above have one thing in common - they are all people who are called to serve and equip the church, both you the people and the wider mission of the church. They are servants first and foremost, and secondly they are equippers. Equipping God’s people for works of service (both inside and outside the ‘church.’)

Moving forward, we believe it would be useful to use the following categories to identify who is a part of our church family and how engaged they are. We also think it’s fair to be clear what ‘commitment’ to the church looks like. It is our prayer that in our discipleship journey, we would all show a solid commitment to the church family that we call home.

To do this we look at the three areas of Time, Money and Energy, defined as follows:

Time - giving your time by turning up and engaging in various areas of church life.

Money - giving some of your money to support the work of the church.

Energy- giving of yourself in service to the church, be that within a specific area of gifting/calling or simply serving.

We believe that everyone can give something in all of these three areas, we all have something to bring in each area to make the church effective in its mission. Though we totally acknowledge that some people have more to give than others in all of these three areas, dependent on life stage and life circumstances. There is grace for all of this, we are not looking to introduce some form of legalism.

It is our hope that by setting out what commitment looks like it will both empower you and inspire you to be really committed to the life of the church.

Committed

You demonstrate a healthy level of commitment in these three areas:

  • Time - demonstrating a commitment to frequent attendance and engagement in either home church or big church, but ideally both.
  • Money - demonstrating commitment by being a regular giver into the church. Whilst we encourage everyone to tithe (give 10% of income), we believe that anything greater than 5% of income demonstrates a clear financial commitment to the Light Church.
  • Energy - using your talents to serve the mission of the church - we recognise this might be serving within the church or serving God in the wider community, bringing his kingdom to bear.

Connected

You’ve called the Light Church home, you have made steps to say ‘I’m in, I’m part of this family’ - awesome - welcome!! However, we recognise that when joining a new church family, it can take time to warm up and to really engage your time, money and energy. We will do everything we can to help you towards that, though of course we recognise this is as much about you choosing to throw yourself in. Picking up a standing order form and filling it in, volunteering to serve in a ministry and turning up to a home church or big church. Take the time you need, though remember that it will more quickly feel more like home the more committed you get.

Curious

This group is simply everyone from those who are checking us out to see if this could be home, to those who maybe connect through our various outreach ministries, whom we are inviting to come and be a part of our church family, and, more importantly, the family of God.

To conclude

We hope and pray that the above explanation and framework will truly serve the whole church as we seek to fulfill the words of Ephesians 4:15-16 that we might be.. ‘...growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of his body, the church. He makes the whole body fit together perfectly. As each part does its own special work, it helps the other parts grow, so that the whole body is healthy and growing and full of love.’

We recognise that this is a significant change for us as a church, and don’t want to underestimate how much time it might take for you as church family to adjust to this new approach and also the new faces. As we said, we do believe that God is doing a new thing, we are excited about this new season, the new emphasis that this team will bring and the sense of fresh vision and perspective that will flow from that. We say all of that with total respect for all that has gone before, we trust God’s timing in it all and that what was right in the past is not always what is right for the future moving forward.

Our God is doing a new thing. The Light church has been and is an amazing church, a vibrant expression of God’s heart for this city, and it shall continue to be exactly that. But God has more for us, so much more. More in terms of fruitfulness, more in terms of knowing Him deeply and experiencing his presence. He has more people to bring into His family and He has more and better ways for us to help people grow into their identity as His children and His co-labourers. It will now be our job as the new leadership to establish what that means for us and to lead us forward into all that He has for us.

Please, please, please will you take some time to stop and to pray for everyone mentioned above. Pray prayers of thanks for those stepping down and prayers of equipping for those stepping up. Having announced it, we will now create some space to pray for all of those stepping into new spheres of responsibility and to commit this to God as His church family.

Church structure
Church structure

Leadership Changes Part 1

Matt Barlow - 29 June 2020

Introduction

At the beginning of this year we entered a new season with me becoming Lead Pastor. One of the words that God gave to us as a church was ‘See I am doing a new thing!’(Isaiah 43:19) I know this resonated with many of you as I’ve heard it repeated back to me many times, which is so encouraging.

As a leadership team, we get a sense that there are a significant number of new things that God has for us and that the coming year could be a time of significant change. Change that doesn’t lose the essence of who we are as a church but that builds on the amazing (but very imperfect) church that God has made us to be over the last nearly 12 years! This is the first of the changes we are bringing to you our church family.

One of the areas we said we would be looking at, is that of leadership structure. As we began our conversations around the ‘new thing’ God may be doing around leadership structure and team, it has turned out to be a very new thing, as you will see as you read on.

The journey started in discussion with the leadership team, that we needed a new wineskin in terms of structure. It was really clear that the previous structure of one team that carried responsibility for everything - trusteeship, spiritual leadership, practical and operational leadership was too great a burden. A burden that had been felt by the team for some time, and with me now at the helm, so to speak, it was time to create a new structure.

As we created that structure, it was then time for each person on the leadership to consider their part in the new structure going forward. As each person sought God for themselves, it was at this point, that it became clear that God really was doing a very new thing, and that a bit of an overhaul of our leadership was part of his plans. I say ‘His plans’ because I want it to be really clear, this is not of my doing. I know incoming Prime Ministers often have a cabinet clear out, this isn’t what has happened here as each leadership team member will tell you, but I do trust God that his hand is upon it.

People stepping down from leadership

Let me tell you who is moving on and why and then we’ll talk about the new that is coming. So in order of longevity of service John Kirkby, Gareth Jones, Chris Haldane and Lindon Craven are all laying down their leadership responsibilities, but continuing as valuable members of the Light church body.

John has served tirelessly since the church’s inception, and also stepped into the gap even more so in the last two years after I stepped off the leadership and then Tim Morfin stepped down just over a year ago. John will tell you he has been ready to step down for some time, simply due to capacity and busyness, but has faithfully carried it, waiting for God to bring a longer term solution.
Gareth similarly had a sense from God that he was to carry this to the point of a new leader, and believes that this time has come. We’re so grateful to Gareth for ten years in leadership of this church, his wisdom and insight has been a huge blessing.
Lindon’s sense after a challenging couple of years is that his new job as Chaplain at Bradford Forster Academy is where God is calling him to really invest his gifts.

Chris has come to the end of his 3 year tenure, and with a new job and the demands of a young family felt God call him to lay it down, to focus more on the creative side of his gifting.

I’ve not mentioned Edd in this list as he is still taking in effect a paternity rest from leadership and we’ve agreed he will sense whether to continue or not later in the year. Helen and Josie - well you’ll hear about them both shortly.

Before I go any further, I want to say thank you to all of those stepping down. I’m going to do it briefly because there will be a moment to truly celebrate and thank each person properly. I know more than most the challenge of seeking to help lead a church in your spare time and I am so very very grateful for the many hours of time each one has invested in helping to lead the church. I also recognise that it’s not just the time, but also the emotional and spiritual cost that can’t be quantified but are significant. I honour each one of you for all that you have given, though I do want to make special mention of John and Gareth, given the length of time they have served. John if it wasn’t for your amazing faith and pioneering ability, I don’t think The Light Church would be here at all. Whilst Josie and I had talked often about starting a church, it was when you said you felt God saying the same to you and Lizzie that we felt we had a chance. We’re truly grateful and pray you will be blessed as you see all that it becomes in the future. Gareth, you’ve done nearly ten years on leadership and we are so grateful for your thoughtful, reflective leadership. For the way you’ve helped shape the church theologically, for your pastoral heart for people, and I know I speak for the whole church in saying that once you’ve had a bit of a preaching break, we can’t wait to have you back.

So, this is part one complete, part two will now let you know what is happening as we move forward, the leadership structure and the people who will be fulfilling the roles of leadership.

Why #blacklivesmatter matters

Matt Barlow - 03 June 2020

Having been mentored for the last two years by one of the most prominent Black Christian leaders in the UK church, the amazing Rev Kate Coleman, I thought I understood.

I didn’t.

In fact I’m only just beginning to wake up, beginning to understand. I’ll never truly understand, but I understand more today than I did a few weeks ago. Which was more than a year before that, which is much more than a decade ago. Racism is still alive and well in today’s society and my brothers, sisters and fellow members of society who happen to have different colour skin feel it acutely to this very day. And when I say feel it, I mean really feel it. This means that where George Floyd was just a sad news story to someone like me, it was a moment of genuine trauma and grief to most black people, including some in our church.

It’s easy to think that because the days of bananas being thrown on football pitches are (mostly) behind us, the ’N’ word and the ‘P’ words are now off limits, we have BAME* Cabinet members that all is now well. But we should all be aware that there is only one group of people who think that racism no longer exists in Britain, and they are called white people.

(* BAME stands for Black, Asian, Minority Ethnic)

You might think that by writing this I’m simply jumping on a bandwagon, trying to be woke (look it up), to fly the flag for political correctness. Or you might be more accurate to think that actually this is a kingdom issue, something that God cares deeply and passionately about, an issue of truly valuing human dignity and recognising that if we don’t seek justice and speak out about injustice we miserably fail in our divine mandate to represent Him to this world. It wasn’t political correctness that drove Christians to lead the fight to abolish slavery, that inspired Christians to lead the civil rights movement and the abolition of apartheid in South Africa. So in the same way we as God’s people need to be at the forefront of fighting for true racial equality in our land. And I believe that what is happening around the world in response to what has been disgraceful injustice after disgraceful injustice in America, is actually a move of God’s spirit that we simply must be in on.

This weekend, we plan to turn to James chapter 2, verses 1-12. These verses talk about the sin of partiality - judging people according to the outside and treating them differently. It couldn’t be more relevant. Sure James talks specifically about the poor and the rich and of course there are poor white men and wealthy black men in Britain, but the rich black men, they’re the exception. (Of the wealthiest 1000 people in the UK in 2020, 81 are non white and just 4 are black.) But whilst James talks to his people about how we treat and welcome people in to our churches, without showing favouritism, without partiality, we have to recognise that our BAME brothers and sisters face this sin of partiality in society in general, as well as in churches, and it should break our hearts.

I’m not claiming I know everything that we must do, but one thing we must do is educate ourselves. We all need educating, every single one of us.

  • If you think that racism no longer exists in the UK, I respectfully would point out that you simply haven’t listened to the right voices.
  • If you think people should just ‘get over’ the past, then you don’t understand how the past impacts the present in a very real way and has yet to be truly learnt from and put right.
  • If you think that you don’t ‘see colour,’ as seemingly magnanimous as that may seem to you, you don’t understand how a simple statement dismisses cultural background and identity, plus it’s simply not true, you see gender, you see age, you see colour.
  • If you think that ‘Black Lives Matter’ should be replaced with ‘All Lives Matter’ you’ve not understood the degree to which Black Lives stand out as ‘Not mattering’ such that they need their own hashtag and own campaign.
  • If you think that we’re nowhere near as bad as America - you’re right, but since when did we step into righteousness by comparing ourselves to a tax collector? (Luke 18:9)

I recognise it can feel like a bit of a minefield, I know we can be fearful in knowing the right things to say, the right terms to use, but if we humble ourselves, get our hearts right and are prepared to be corrected by those of a different colour skin, we can move forward together.

This is not political correctness, this is injustice correcting.

For further reading, please check out this blog by my friend Kate, who suggests many different links and books to help educate yourself.

Light groups become Home Churches

Matt Barlow - 01 June 2020

Levelling up Big Church and Home Church

As we continue to journey towards a sense of new vision for us as a church, I am convinced that a thriving network of groups meeting in homes is going to be even more important to us as a church than ever before. Already in the Light church, many people would say that their Light group is the most important aspect of church life for them. It is my observation that too many churches hold the Sunday meeting up as ‘non negotiable’ whilst making small group meeting very much optional. I believe that to be able to both grow as a church and also to improve how we disciple one another, that we need to elevate the role of the small group up alongside the place of the Sunday gathering.

Someone said to me recently, ‘I’m not part of the Light church any more, but am still committed to my Light group.’ This struck me as an interesting insight into what it means to be a part of a church. I reflected that I don’t think anyone would ever say, ‘I’m not really part of the light church anymore, but still regularly go to church meetings on a Sunday.’ Personally I believe this is a wrong understanding of what church is. Meeting in ‘big church’ of 200 people or meeting in ‘small church’ of 12 - it’s all part of being the ekklesia - the congregation of God’s people.

Biblical mandate

I also have a strong belief that this is a biblical mandate. As I taught in my final ‘live’ sermon before lockdown, the new testament clearly shows us that churches tended to have their identity by the homes that met in. The church regularly met in homes, and it would appear this is where the church truly came together to grow in their love for God. One of the biggest advantages of meeting in small gatherings is more people get to use their gifts. All those instructions on using the gifts of the spirit weren’t aimed at large gatherings, they were at churches that met in homes - they actually make much more sense when you understand this (e.g. 1Cor14:26 When you come together, each of you has a hymn, or a word of instruction, a revelation, a tongue or an interpretation - this simply can’t be the case in a group of 200!) If we are going to make disciples, we’ll do it much better in smaller groups than sitting watching other people use their gifts as often happens on a Sunday morning.

Name change

I first came across the phrase ‘Home Church’ when preaching in a church in Manchester maybe ten years ago, and it instantly inspired me. I believe it sends a message that church is simply wherever God’s people gather together for worship and building each other up in the faith. When I came across it again recently, I felt convinced that this was the way we should go.

So, from now as a church we’re going to refer to Light groups as Home churches. Say a prayer for our Light group leaders - one minute they were a Light group leader, now they’re a Home church leader - Q: ‘what? I’m a church leader??’ A: ‘Yes, but you were one already, you just had the wrong name!’ I know name changes take a while to bed in, I know not everyone will like it, but hopefully you’ll all join in.

I’m very aware that just changing a name never changed anything (apart from the name!) But as God reveals his vision for us, I believe this will be the first step in stepping into all he has for us as a church and that Home churches are going to play a big part in that. And don’t worry - Sunday gatherings aren’t going away, and if you don’t have any space at all in your life to be part of a home church, you can still play a valuable role as a member of the Light Church.

A prayer:

‘Father, would you take something as simple as a name change and use it to strengthen our church in every way.

Would you help all of us to understand the value of meeting in a smaller group and that this isn’t some second rate cousin to the Sunday morning gathering.

In this busy world would you help us find time to meet in this way.

In this world of curating the right image for everyone to see, may they be places of genuine openness and honesty.

In this commitment phobic age, help us commit to one another as brothers and sisters.

At a time where the powers of this world seek to disciple us in their image, would you help us to disciple each other in your image.

Lord bless home churches.

Bless those who lead them.

Bless all who meet in them.

Use this powerfully for your kingdom advancement in this city and for leading all of us into life in all of its fullness.

To finish

Thanks for reading this far - just for clarity, you’ll likely hear me refer to the two different expressions of church as ‘Big Church’ and ‘Home Church’ - that keeps things simple in my simple head.

Matt

P.S. My thanks to the Home Church leaders for their feedback and input into this decision.

See I am doing a new thing!

Matt Barlow - 15 May 2020

Matt shares some of what he senses God is speaking to him about as we journey towards a fresh vision for the Light Church